I've been back to work a bit on my long-unfinished military sf novel Shame, which is set roughly a thousand years in the future. Yesterday I was adding some details to a sex scene involving a heterosexual couple, and I started to wonder whether or not I should bother mentioning if they have made provisions for birth control or disease prevention. They are both on-duty soldiers and aren't doing it for procreation (also, the kind of people who believe that the only proper role for sex is procreation have gone totally extinct by the time period of my story. Ironic, huh?). Then it occurred to me that I could make passing "futuristic" references to how STDs pretty much don't exist in their world and that birth control is pretty much foolproof by then...and perhaps even it's the case that the male partner is on some kind of hormonal birth control or has some kind of easy and reversible vasectomy technology (using, perhaps, nanotech?).
In fact, real-world news was made recently about the imminent roll-out of a male birth control pill, which made me think that, sure, of course, a thousand years from now that will probably be standard and I was about to stick that detail into the story. But then I thought about it some more. And I concluded that I don't think that a male birth control pill is really going to fly either in the 21st century or the 31st. I think the only venue where people might opt for it and trust is within a committed relationship such as marriage where perhaps the partners don't want kids or are done having kids. If a woman were contemplating having sex with a dude with whom she were not in a very committed relationship and did not know very well, would she really be smart to trust him when he says, "Yeah, I'm on the pill. It's cool." I hate to think that a guy would lie about such a thing. But if I were a female, that possibility would certainly be in the back of my mind. Of course I am sure it has happened in history that a female has lied about being on the pill, but the stakes are a lot higher for the female since she is the one who might end up pregnant.
Since I don't buy the premise of the male pill, I decided to drop that detail from my story and decided that talking about birth control and disease prevention probably didn't need to happen in this fictional world anyway, especially not just for the sake of making it seem "futuristic." But then I backtracked again and added in a new detail: I have the dude put on a condom. I don't know if I will leave that in there, but something amuses me about the irony of the situation that I have created in this story, a sort of good news/bad news situation. The good news: in the 31st century, sex is positive and good, and partners enjoy it as equals...the bad news: in the 31st century, dudes will still be expected to wear rubbers! Damn!
In fact, real-world news was made recently about the imminent roll-out of a male birth control pill, which made me think that, sure, of course, a thousand years from now that will probably be standard and I was about to stick that detail into the story. But then I thought about it some more. And I concluded that I don't think that a male birth control pill is really going to fly either in the 21st century or the 31st. I think the only venue where people might opt for it and trust is within a committed relationship such as marriage where perhaps the partners don't want kids or are done having kids. If a woman were contemplating having sex with a dude with whom she were not in a very committed relationship and did not know very well, would she really be smart to trust him when he says, "Yeah, I'm on the pill. It's cool." I hate to think that a guy would lie about such a thing. But if I were a female, that possibility would certainly be in the back of my mind. Of course I am sure it has happened in history that a female has lied about being on the pill, but the stakes are a lot higher for the female since she is the one who might end up pregnant.
Since I don't buy the premise of the male pill, I decided to drop that detail from my story and decided that talking about birth control and disease prevention probably didn't need to happen in this fictional world anyway, especially not just for the sake of making it seem "futuristic." But then I backtracked again and added in a new detail: I have the dude put on a condom. I don't know if I will leave that in there, but something amuses me about the irony of the situation that I have created in this story, a sort of good news/bad news situation. The good news: in the 31st century, sex is positive and good, and partners enjoy it as equals...the bad news: in the 31st century, dudes will still be expected to wear rubbers! Damn!
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